Philemon Refreshed Hearts of Saints

Verse 7 Your love has given me great joy and encouragement, because you, brother, have refreshed the hearts of the saints.

I'd like to be someone who has refreshed the hearts of the saints. I do not want to be somebody that has slaves though. That isn't right. I like to be treated as a sister and I like to treat people like they are loved. I have to stay away from people that treat me terribly because I don't want to end up like them treating people terribly. I don't really attract mean people very often. But when they are around they're very mean. I have to learn to not pay attention to them again.