Hosea 4 The Men Themselves

Verse 14 I will not punish your daughters when they turn to prostitution, nor your daughters-in-law when they commit adultery, because the men themselves consort with harlots and sacrifice with shrine prostitutes- a people without understanding will come to ruin!

It's never good to point the finger at women. It shows spiritual immaturity. Who is the leader of that women? Does she go to church? Who is her pastor? Is she married? Who is her husband? Is she single? Who is her father? Does she have siblings? Who is her brother? What are they doing, where are they in their walk with the LORD? That is the starting point. The men are usually also doing something off, in this instance it says they consorted with harlots.

When someone is not obeying God, they are in sin and need help to get right with Jesus. It is going to take their own will to want to stop sinning and start spending time in the Word. They need to go to church to Bible studies, do studying at home too. Pray for God to help them with whatever it is they are dealing with. Sure, talk to someone mature and not dumber than you. They will only bring you down. Don't expect anyone to hold your hand. Jesus is your Savior. Stay close to your Bible.