2 Corinthians 10

Verse 10 For some say, "His letters are weighty and forceful, but in person he is unimpressive and his speaking amounts to nothing"

It is very important to be in fellowship with Jesus. Spend time with Him. Plan to read and study through the entire Bible. However that looks. Some do it once a year, some take 2 1/2, some take 5 years and some don't keep track! Some just read here and there.... I know for me, when I decided to start reading and studying through it, my life changed. I got worse before I got better, but I am still walking with the Lord today and love Him so much and know He loves me too still through the thick and thin. I am not a great speaker not a great writer. I do like sharing what I learn though!